Ditch and Stitch

This weekend I "ditched" my family and "stitched" with a couple of friends. Two of my friends have gone a quilting retreat with a group from a quilting shop here and town and they decided this year just to keep it simple and have one with just a few friends. There were supposed to be four of us, but one gal's husband fell out of the house they were building on Thursday night and broke his ankle and she had to play nursemaid. We missed her terribly...but she did come out for a few hours on Saturday. I had every intention of quilting, but then I talked myself out of making two quilts for Eli's new bunkbed (denim comforters will be just fine and a lot less work!) and decided instead to work on the children's Halloween costumes. I even finished them! While I did not work as hard as Liz and Dixie (who actually pieced some quilts), I did meet my goal (and taught myself how to make ruffles) and reminded myself that I actually do enjoy that kind of stuff. It got me all fired up for more crafts and sewing. It's a good thing, too, because I'm sure there will be alot to do for our new house. Let me also interject that I am not that great (unlike my mother who is fantastic!) and I am exceptional at short, easy, instant gratification projects...like curtains and Halloween costumes. There are no pictures of this little get together since we all wore "comfortable" clothes all weekend and didn't put on makeup. I stayed up way too late, talked too much, ate too many "snacks", and just generally had a a great weekend. Brad kept the children and they seemed to have a pretty good weekend, as well. Phoebe keeps walking around the house calling, "Da-ie, Da-ie?" He even put the dishes in the dishwasher (he usually just rinses them off and leaves them in the sink)...I guess there is something redeeming about having your house on the market! :)

Same Song, Second Verse (Or Third...Or Fourth...Or Fifth...)

I think my cell phone is cursed. No, I think I am cursed when it comes to cell phones. If my cell phone were cursed, then getting a new one would make the curse go away. As it stands, I've been through three phones and the hits just keep coming!

My sweet husband, Brad, whom I love more than life itself, was trying to be so helpful yesterday when he decided my iphone needed to have the updates installed. Unfortunately, instead of installing the updates, it just wiped out all the data I had saved on my phone. All my contacts? Gone. All my music? Gone. All my special ringtones? Gone. It was exceptionally frustrating. Especially since I find this particular "helpful" gesture extremely annoying. Just when I figure out an electronic device, he "updates" it so then I have to learn a completely new way of doing things. He says he's trying to keep me from getting older than I already am. (Keeping in mind that we view age with a "you're only as old as you feel" mentality around here...I'm about fifty. Always have been.) Sometimes I just wish he'd load the dishwasher and leave my cell phones alone if he wants to be helpful. So I sent out an email today telling everybody I usually call that if they want me to call them they have to email me their number (because I have nothing memorized) or call me on my cell...too bad I accidentally sent them Brad's phone number. He's been getting calls all day. My phone has been strangely silent. Oh wait, maybe that's because I have no good ringtones anymore.

In other news, we finally bought all our lights today. It only took us trips to both the Home Depots and Lowe's here in town...and took all day long! It probably would have been a lot faster if the salespeople at said places actually moved faster than molasses.

And finally, here is my ingenious way of keeping my children out of the house and occupied while trying to get ready for the weekend.


Yes, they are painting the fence with water. I used to do this with my pre-k kids when I taught public school. It's one of the ways we would review our letters. Everybody thinks it great and it keeps them occupied. See, I'm not always "no fun"!

Things That Made Me Smile

This bowl of fruit.

I bought it at a roadside stand (in the Donut Stop parking lot of all places!) and it is heavenly. It smells delicious and looks so proverbial that I just had to take a picture. Of course at the this point, there are far fewer than what is represented in this picture. There was also a lesson learned from buying fruit from the nice roadside man. Hide the free sample the nice old man gives you because he thinks your daughter is so precious because she's pointing and asking for a peach. She can't eat it because she dressed so finely and peach juice stains and she's not so precious when she's throwing a fit and squealing because you won't give it to her. We went home and had it for lunch, but not without some damage to my eardrums.


Eli's explanation of how Star Wars fits into the story of creation. He told me that God made them too before he made all the other "peoples" and then they went up into space and we were made and so God loves them too. I'm guessing that they must have come after Adam and Eve's banishment from the Garden, but before Noah. I'm thinking we have some more work to do on distinguishing reality and fantasy...and basic Bible stories.


The fact that I was washing my windows at 7:30 yesterday morning. Although that may have been more of a grimace. We decided to hire a realtor to sell our house and when you hire one from this particular firm, they have a "realtor" open house. All the realtors from that firm (all forty-something!) walk through your house and find all the things you should do to make it more "sellable." I know that the criticism is constructive, but it didn't stop me from feeling like a whole group of people I don't know were walking through my house trying to find things that were wrong with it! Our realtor hasn't given us any of this great "feedback" that will help us sell our house quicker. I'm just waiting with bated breath.


That my house is very, very clean. Enough said.


Phoebe's pigtails. I'm not sure I will ever get enough of them.

First Day of Fall...Sort of

Yesterday was the official first day of Fall. It's seems a little arbitrary to actually note it's passing since in most of Texas, it still feels like the end of summer. We were at a whopping 85 degrees yesterday and we were probably one of the cooler spots in the state. My children celebrated by running around in their underwear at a friend's house. It's kind of a long story that involves tie-dye and a big bucket, but I'll blog about that later! :)

I'm ready for Fall. I'm ready for the brisk weather (but not too cold, of course!). I call it "soup weather." Cool enough that a big pot of soup simmering on the stove makes the whole house smell yummy and cozy, but not snowy and blustery enough for stew. That's "stew weather." I'm never ready for that! I'm ready for the Pumpkin Patch. I'm ready to start thinking about Halloween (not quite ready for Halloween because I haven't made my children's Halloween costumes and I have to make them because I'm crazy like that). I'm ready for the the trees in our neighborhood to start turning and litter the sidewalk and streets with leaves. I'm ready for jackets and pumpkins and scarecrows. Our Fall is exceptionally busy with trying to sell the house, getting the last details of the new house finished, moving, unpacking, my sister's wedding, and all the day-to-day stuff that make up a life. I just hope in all our "busy-ness" that we actually get to enjoy the Fall a little. At least my children are taking a little time to enjoy the changing of seasons. These leaves are an indication that Fall is just around the corner. Well, that, or the tree in our backyard is dying. Hopefully, it's the latter.



Notice the cooperation. Notice the teamwork. I really had nothing to do with this. It was my job to take pictures because this is not something that will happen next year at our new house. I'm pretty sure you need trees to have leaves.


Sigh. Maybe a Pumpkin Spice Latte will help me feel a little more "fallish." But really, is there anything a Pumpkin Spice Latte can't fix?

By the way, the t-shirt Eli is wearing in the above pictures was mine when I was no bigger than a minute. (Sounds better than "when I was a little girl," huh?). My mom saved it all these years and now Eli gets to wear it. That's because we are so cool and vintage-y and "green" like that! (Ha, Ha). It is an exceptionally soft shirt, though.

At The Fair, Part II

I have a friend who is really good at making the ordinary something very special. Her family has parties for the first day of school, a scavenger hunt on Valentine's Day, and "Reading Club" everyday. ("Reading Club" is my favorite! She and her two children sit on the trampoline and read for 20 minutes every day. How cool is that?!) She believes that giving something a special name makes it something to look forward to and be remembered. They have a lot of "dates" at their house. "Mommy Dates" and "Daddy Dates" and "Family Dates" where they take turns doing special things with the children...stuff we all do, but they have a name for it. It turns a trip to the fair into a Family Fair Date and makes it just that much more fun. I am trying to emulate my friend and make ordinary, everyday things so much more special and fun and memorable by giving it a name. So we had our own Family Fair Date last Thursday night. Brad went under duress, but I think he had fun...despite the $20 entry fee and $5 funnel cake. I did make us dinner before hand so we wouldn't overload on grease and save a little money.

Our first stop was the petting zoo, again. This time we paid the $1 and bought the food...the animals really loved us then!


Phoebe was still hesitant, at first, but then she started to enjoy the animals...especially because she got feed them.


We walked around a bit after that. I love to look at all the photography and crafts and baked goods and canned items that people submit at the fair. We even got to watch a salsa competition. It was riveting! No pictures though because mostly my children rolling their eyes at the boredom. Oh wait, that was Brad. Then we found some livestock. Phoebe really liked this part! The bunny judging was the next morning and this nice gal pulled out some of her bunnies so the children could pet them. I haven't seen Phoebe as exited about anything (except food) as she was about those bunnies! She just laughed and "hopped." Of course, her feet never actually left the ground, but she bounced up and down saying, "Hop! Hop!" I so wish I had gotten a video!



Then we went to see the goats. Oh my heavens, how they made Phoebe laugh! Especially the Nigerian Dwarf goats...I think she thought they were just her size. The went on until another big goat "brayed" at her and she wanted me to carry her after that. Truth be told, it was a little disturbing.


There was more about Phoebe during this part of our date because Eli spent the entire first hour and half asking and begging and pestering about when we were going to ride the rides. I think he might have mentioned it 967 times between the front gate and the first ride. So finally, it was time to ride the rides!


Phoebe and Daddy waiting in line.


Eli and Mommy.


Eli and I rode the "bug roller-coaster." Now, I am not a roller-coaster kind of gal, but I figured I could handle a kiddie roller-coaster. It was fun (and I acted like I enjoyed it for Eli's sake), but I was so glad when it was finally over. The stuff we do for our children!

I only look a little panicked in this picture.


Phoebe didn't like being left behind. Here's how she spent the entire ride.


Then it was time for Dad to ride something with Eli. They chose that big Pirate boat that swings back and forth. Being prone to motion sickness, I cannot think of another ride I would rather not ride at the fair, and that's the kiddie one! I held the crying Phoebe while they did. Sorry it's so fuzzy...old camera and all.



Phoebe finally found a ride she was tall enough for. I think it might be the best one of all.

Don't Get Between A Girl And Her Donut

When Phoebe wants something she can be quite determined.



Maybe this next picture will give you a better idea of how determined she really is! This is the bakers cabinet in my kitchen. She climbed up there entirely by herself. She was so proud.




Keep in mind that she had already had her dozen donut holes a little while earlier and we had (mostly) cleaned up breakfast. I hope someday she will be as determined for something worthy as opposed to food!

Field Trip To The Fair

I have a confession to make: I don't like field trips. As a teacher, I know all the reasons you should take them and the benefits children glean from them, but they are so much work! I like my routines and my schedules and on field trip day, all of those well-planned routines and schedules go out the window. A field trip with 24 four-and-five-year-olds is like herding cats all day long. I thought it might be better this year attending the field trip as a mom as opposed to a teacher...and it was, but I still don't like field trips that much. I think maybe Eli is right. Maybe I am "no fun." Yesterday, I went with Eli's class to the fair, and while it's no State Fair of Texas, it's a darn good little fair. You can even get in free before 1:00pm!

Our first stop was the petting zoo. Eli has always been unafraid of most animals and really enjoyed petting the sheep, goats, llamas, and deer at the petting zoo.


Phoebe was not as excited about the animals as Eli was. I think she was a little overwhelmed. Usually she loves animals, but I think these were a little too big and different for her. She spent most of her time at the petting zoo in my arms with a death grip on my shoulders. Sorry about the goat bottom in this picture...it was a very uncooperative goat and this was the best picture we took.


Then we headed off to see the exhibits. We watched a cow being milked and some clowns singing very old Christian, children's songs. (Think "Bullfrogs and Butterflies") There were also tractors, quilts, crafts, baked goods, and canned items. Someday I am going to enter something in our fair...seriously, I think it would be fun. This is Eli and "his buddies" around a big tractor. A little West Texas, don't you think?


This is the pumpkin that won 1st place in the "Big Vegetable" category. I'm not sure if that meant it was the very best vegetable among large varieties or if it was just the biggest vegetable. We were too busy herding cats to ask the security guard in produce section. Seriously, a security guard in the vegetables?


There's nothing like a little teamwork!


Then it was time for lunch! All the children had brought sack lunches and money for a little cotton candy.


Phoebe, my little garbage disposal, would not eat the cotton candy. She didn't have any of the same reservations about the funnel cake I broke down and bought for all the grown-ups to share. I have no will power when it comes to funnel cakes!

"Mom, this is really good!"


"Seriously, have you tried this?!"


"They won't notice if I have just a little more."


It was about this time that it got hotter n' blue blazes so we decided to leave. Eli had a haircut after lunch and at one point both of my children were lying on the floor in the hair salon. I think they might have been a little tired. It was good naps all around after that!

By the way, I haven't gotten a new camera. We are still researching which one to buy so Brad found our old digital camera. It only takes slightly better pictures than my cell phone, but it's better than nothing! There are memories to record here, people!

A New "Do"

This picture will upset my dad (aka Grandaddy) because Phoebe looks so old! They are soooo cute, but they make her look like such a little girl.


It's our first day to wear actual pigtails, as opposed to the little half-pigtails I usually do.


And our "cheesy" smile!

Rest In Peace

I think my camera is dead. It's still not working. *Sigh* And I had some pretty good photo opportunities yesterday while we were out and about. You'll just have to imagine Phoebe "swishing" her arms in the unwieldy "car cart" at Lowe's to mimic windshield wipers. Or Eli talking to the painters in full Powerranger regalia. On a side note: we don't know much about Powerrangers around here having never watched the TV show. It's a sad day when a mom has to google "Powerrangers" because her son keeps asking an endless supply of questions about them. How do they fight? What do they wear? Who do they fight? What are their weapons? Is there a girl? I can answer most questions about Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Star Wars, (I know you are impressed), but Powerrangers are an entirely different subject. Or Brad taking Eli to a small high-school football game. Phoebe and I got to stay home and clean the house for the open house we are having this weekend. Yeah.

So what kind of camera is a good one? I want it to have a good zoom, be able to take pictures quickly (no lag time), be easy to use, and take great pictures. I don't need a "professional" camera as some of my friends have because I'm not that interested in photography. I just want to take great pictures of my children...and maybe a few of Brad, too!

When Things Don't Go As Planned

I had big plans for me and Phoebe today. We were going to go to Starbucks (okay, I still did that) and then come home and play together. I was really excited because I was also going to take some pictures of Phoebe just being Phoebe and all the preciousness that she is. Then life got in the way and my plans were changed. My camera is refusing to work today. I really think it's time to break down and buy a new one. (Hint, Hint, Brad) Phoebe has been very congested the last few days...and half the time I forget to give her allergy medicine before she falls asleep. She doesn't sleep well because of this and was up at 4:30 this morning unable to breath well. So instead of playing together like I had planned, she's back in bed and I'm looking at an empty morning. If I tried really hard, I could come up with some things to do. I'm sure I could pack some boxes, but they are in the garage and it's raining outside. My house is clean (well, as clean as I like it, anyway) so there isn't any housework to do unless I just see an overwhelming need to scrub all my baseboards. I don't. I could bake some cookies or banana bread or something, but then I would have to clean up my kitchen and it just seems like a lot of work so I won't.

So here I am, sitting at my computer thinking about things that don't go as planned. We talked about this some with our Huddle kids last night. As a side note, let me tell you that I love our Huddle. I mean, I really, really LOVE it. This is starting our third year with this group. They are turning into some great, deep, spiritual thinkers and I've loved being here for the process. We started with them as freshmen and now they are juniors. I just want to soak up all the time I have with this awesome group of teenagers as we learn to be disciples together. Anyway, two of our girls who play volleyball didn't make varsity this year and they opened up about how hurtful that was and some decisions they were having to make because of it. Decisions to become leaders and have a good attitude and all the things that one learns as one deals with disappointment. I loved their courage to open up about the things that really matter and not "play church." Everybody has dreams and plans and ideas that don't happen for whatever reason. I think most of our human experience is dealing with disappointment and heartache. I haven't figured out how to be one of those joyful people that are just running over with the love that is being poured into them through Christ. I find being a disciple exceptionally hard...I'm probably doing it wrong, but that's another post for another day.

It's funny because another friend and I were just talking about the same thing on Tuesday. We've decided to start praying together once a week. These are not please-pray-for-my-grandmother-because-she-has-a-cold kind of prayers. We want to be honest and open about our walk with Christ, our relationships, and all those other things we usually pretend are great and normal. She doesn't judge my disappointments and my heartaches. She doesn't tell me that I should be grateful for my two wonderful children when I'm mourning the fact that I'm only going to have two children. She doesn't tell me that I could always adopt or that I don't know God's plans or that some people would give their left arm for two children. She just lets me be hurt. And I am hurting. Sometimes it seems like I've been hurting about this one particular thing for so long it shouldn't be an issue anymore. We had a hard time getting pregnant with Phoebe. Some of you will read the words "hard time getting pregnant" and know that they tell a heartbreaking story in and of themselves. Some of you will read those words and think you know what it's like because your sister, friend, whatever had a hard time getting pregnant, but unless you've walked that road yourself, you cannot understand what those words really mean. It's like some sad, exclusive little club that I would rather not belong to. Then we finally got pregnant with Phoebe and I was overjoyed. Sometimes I feel like those ten months were the last truly happy, hopeful time our family knew. Because then I got cancer again and it becomes clearer and clearer that our family is finished. I'm not going to be pregnant again. We are not going to have four children like we had always hoped. Eli and Phoebe will only have each other and there is no one in the middle to bridge that age gap. This disappointment hurts. It hurts alot and I keep thinking it's not going to anymore because time heals all things, right?

So, what do you do when things don't go as planned? I'm not sure. I want to be one of those people who accept it and are so filled up with Christ that peacfulness and contentedness pours out of them. Like that whole Fruit of the Spirit thing. But it's so hard when you feel the hurt like a something gnawing away at the inside of your chest and it just makes you so angry. And I know it's okay to be angry with God. I know that He is a God who can handle our anger and yet still wants to walk with us (or allow us to walk with Him). But how do we "get better"? How do I allow Christ to heal my heart? How do I help but wonder if I will always mourn this and realize how bleak that future looks for me? How do you move on? Are there any books to read? Am I taking two giant steps backward in my walk because I feel/act this way? Is this showing my immaturity yet again?

All these thoughts because I forgot to give Phoebe her allergy medicine. :) I'm certain there were better ways to spend this last hour, but most of them would have involved being productive. I apologize that it took so many words, but it usually does in cases like this. It would make my librarian mother proud to realize that I just spellchecked my post and there no spelling errors!

We Are Very Boring...

Not too much going on here in the McCall house. We've had a fairly uneventful week so far. (Well, except for almost starting a kitchen fire while trying to make gravy for shepherd's pie from a pot roast I made on Saturday.) We don't have any funny stories to tell or words of wisdom or even interesting facts to impart...just same old, same old around here. Sometimes there is such contentment in the mundane.

Our house is coming along. It seems we've hit a point where there is a whole lot of little stuff going on...the trim guy is (finally) finishing up, the painter is caulking and cleaning to get ready to paint, the dirt guy is (still) scraping more dirt from the backyard to even it out and make a bigger, flatter driveway. For some reason, Brad is worried I'm going to back off the edge of the driveway and end up in the neighbor's yard. He has no confidence in my driving. I'm sure I've never done anything to make him worried! :) The only big things to be accomplished since last week are the staircase and the fireplace. I love them both!



Please notice the tiny fishing line running down the middle of the picture. Eli's fishing pole now lives in the attic at the new house and he was "fishing" off from the upstairs railing. We'll have to address that when we actually live there.

I think Phoebe is trying to get about three new teeth this week. She's been very cranky and it's hard to know why she is cranky since her vocabulary is so limited. Sometimes all I know to do is give her some Motrin and put her to bed. It certainly makes me feel better when I'm cranky. I took this picture on Sunday before church. It was good thing I did because she got ketchup on the dress at lunch and ranch in her hair!


Maybe by the next time I post, I'll have some really great story to tell!

A Little Bit Of This And That

This is what I feel most days. (You'll have to scroll down to a few posts ago, labeled "What I'd Like For You To Know: Living With a Chronic Illness" because I couldn't figure out how to make just that one post a link.) She has such frank, beautiful words...way better than my own.

Brad is finally home! Yeah! He was gone all week on a backpacking trip in CO. The kids are excited because they got to stay up until 8:30pm. I've been putting them to bed at 7:45 or 8pm because I've been so tired. It's a great plan until they wake up at 6:15am! It's a viscous cycle. One that did allow us to be at the bagel place (completely showered and dressed) at 8:15 this morning. I think I should I take my children out at this time more often. An older lady said to me as she was leaving, "Your children are so well-behaved." What?!! That has never happened to me before. I had to look around and make sure she was talking to me. She was because I was the only person in the restaurant with children.

A funny Eli story:
Eli: Mom, I'm a really lucky little boy!
Me: Oh, yeah? Why is that?
Eli: I just found half a cookie under the table and I ate it!

Hmmmm. I wonder how long that has been there. I'm not sure if it says more about Eli's "luck" or my housecleaning.

I would probably be a better house cleaner if Phoebe did not dump out an entire jar of green sugar sprinkles on the floor that I had just mopped not 20 minutes previously. We have got to find some better child-safety-locks!

Things I've Learned This Week

It takes Phoebe about ten minutes to empty a mostly full container of Vaseline onto her hair, her clothes, and the tile floor in the bathroom. (I was unloading and reloading the dishwasher.)

It takes at least three washings for Vaseline to come out of hair. We've had very greasy hair the last two days. I'm going to use "grown-up" shampoo tomorrow and see if it will work better.

Vaseline is very hard to clean up off a tile floor. After the majority of it is scooped up with paper towels, there is really no way to get the greasy film off the floor...it just "smears" around. I've tried 409 and it is not as tough on grease as it claims to be. Goo-gone worked better, but don't go into the bathroom with your flip-flops on because you'll wind up on your bottom in nothing flat!

Vaseline turns into little, waxy balls in the washer when clothes covered in Vaseline are soaked in Biz bleach and then washed twice. I'm sure we'll be having washing machines issues any day now.

Phoebe has learned how to open cabinets installed with child safety locks. Seriously, the girl can get into anything! That's where the Vaseline was stored.

Eli can roller-skate. The persistent, stubborn, iron-will-in-the-face-of-adversity side of his personality finally came in handy. Great. I had hoped it would help him stand up to persecution in the world or peer-pressure or when times got hard, but I guess roller-skating it is. We went for the first time yesterday evening and I saw a stubborn set to his jaw that made me so proud...really. Some children might have given up, but not Eli and his will of iron. Sigh.

Picking out lights for our new house overwhelms me. I tried to go today and left the store in a incoherent, babbling mess. This is something I thought I would be good at, but I was wrong. Brad is just going to have to go with me and hold my hand while I make such decisions as two or three lights over the mirrors in my bathroom and whether the ceiling fans should have four or five blades.

My dad has a blog. Wonders never cease.

Pagosa Springs

Over Labor Day, we drove to Pagosa Spring, CO with some friends of ours. It was great (except for the seven hour car trip with five kids!) and now we are home and the laundry is finished. Here are a few memories of the trip:

* Brad and Josh playing horseshoes for two hours! I never knew it could be so riveting.
* Taking the children fishing which was mostly playing in the creek. The children had so much fun and it makes you realize how important it is to just experience life. However, the wet, cold, muddy drive back to the cabin was not quite as much fun.
* Eli asking me (while standing in knee-deep water) if it was okay to get his pants wet!
* The smell of rain from our open windows every morning.
* Eli scratching his eye or something that required an eye patch...it was miraculously healed when we went for ice cream. I've heard chocolate shakes have that power.
* The nature walk that was designed to get the children out of the house because it rained all day Sunday...we got rained on and decided to go for ice cream instead.
* Brad's ingenious idea to set up his backpacking tent inside so the children could play there. I think it saved our sanity.

So to all my family who thought we had fallen off the face of the Earth (no cell phone service), this is what we did. Enjoy the pictures!

First Day of Pre-K, Take 2

Kid University started today and despite Eli's confidence in the above picture, he had a rough morning. So did his mommy. I decided to stay home this year instead of teaching Pre-K again at KU and I think Eli had a little trouble wrapping his brain around this new development. Eli has been attending KU since he was one, and he really, really enjoys it so he was very excited about school starting this year. I had no trouble getting him out of bed and ready for the day. We had our First Day of School Pancakes. We wore our First Day of School Clothes. We took our First Day of School Pictures. His trouble started when we got to class and he was not sitting with his friend, "Corby." Corby was sitting with all his other friends at a different table and Eli's table was full of girls! Now, girls we know and play with are fine, but girls we don't know are girls and therefore unacceptable as table companions. Seriously, he broke down into tears and would not be consoled. I didn't get to take any pictures of him with his teachers or in his classroom because he was crying and Phoebe was using this distraction to pick up the teacher's pen and write on anything she could find. Since I don't know his teachers and they don't know him, I'm not sure how they got him to do what he needed to do, but they did say at the end of the day that he was fine. I'm not sure what that means. Since I'm not teaching at KU this year and both teachers are new, I don't feel like I have an inside track and it's hard to know what really happened and to know how to empower his teachers to make his year successful. It's going to be a learning process for all of us, I'm afraid. My morning was rough because I missed him. I missed checking in on him to see how his day went. I missed running next door to get a quick hug and kiss. I missed knowing what is going on with him. We have been working alot on telling the truth in our family. Eli has a great imagination and I'm thankful for that, but it makes it hard for him to distinguish between fantasy and reality. For example, I asked him if he had asked his teachers to heat up his burrito at lunch today. He said, "Yeah, I asked them and they said, 'Forget it!' but it's okay because I like cold burritos." Hmmmm. Usually, the teachers have no problem heating up food so I'm not sure if he just didn't ask, they've changed their policy, or if he just decided he wanted a cold burrito. I feel certain that they did not tell him to "Forget it!" I guess it's just going to be a year of learning for both of us. Maybe it'll get us ready for real school next year. When we went to pick him up, he was in great spirits! He talked about school with a great attitude and has had a nice afternoon. We'll see how it goes on Thursday.